Doug and Marta have full hearts and immense gratitude as they recount their journey as foster parents.
“There is no better feeling than knowing we have changed a child’s life,” said Marta. “At the same time, this child has changed our lives for the better. The process has made us realize how blessed we are and helped us appreciate the small things again.”
“It’s hard to explain,” said Doug. “It’s a rollercoaster of emotions. Seeing how happy he is now makes it all worth it.”
Marta and Doug did not make the decision to become foster parents lightly. They knew they could make a difference in the life of a foster child, but they also knew that their children needed to feel safe, loved, and protected through the process. Together, as a family, they leaned into the training and support from DePaul and made the leap.
“Bringing a child we had never met before into our home was challenging,” said Doug. “The hardest part was the unknown—we didn’t know what to expect or what would happen. But things got better after a couple of months as we embraced the situation with love, understanding, and positivity. After a couple years, the journey exceeded our expectations beyond our imagination. It made us better parents and a better couple.”
In November, the family officially adopted Austin.
“Austin is such a sweet boy,” said Marta. “He greets everyone he sees and is curious about everything. When he moved in, he didn’t even want to touch a ball. Now, he wants to play sports all day.”
“He was so scared and lost, carrying a lot of guilt he shouldn’t have been carrying because of how things happened,” said Doug. “He has a contagious personality—funny and brave.”
Marta and Doug did not imagine they would adopt so soon into their foster care journey. But after welcoming Austin into their home and family—adapting and adjusting to life together— adoption was an easy decision.
“We realized Austin was the perfect addition to our family,” said Marta. “We couldn’t imagine our lives without him, so we decided to adopt him.”
Together, this family is proving that there is plenty of love and care to go around.